The Recap: 16 Days Of Activism

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11/12/2017

We have come to the end of the 16 Days of Activism and it’s time to look back on what happened over the past two weeks (and a bit!)

A lot of important issues were addressed and I must admit that some light has been shed on so many gender based challenges that occur in our society today. It has been a roller coaster of emotions as people have been speaking up about their experiences (which can be a really tough thing to do).

CONVERSATIONS

A number of conversations were sparked up on social media this past week and it was quite alarming to know that a lot of people still need to be thoroughly educated.

So many people have a nonchalant attitude towards these sensitive issues. I came across a tweet where a user suggested that a woman deserves to be beaten up if she provokes her man. REALLY BRUH?!

I also had a discussion with a man who believes that women should never have a voice and must always play second fiddle to men because giving a woman ‘unnecessary freedom’ would make her wild. Best believe that is the last conversation I’m ever going to have with him.

I’m not sure why some men have strong opinions about what we should do with our bodies, why they think women were created to always please them by default, or why we should always bend so much until we eventually snap.

It has gotten to a point where some men feel attacked when women speak up and fight for what they deserve. As Ijeoma Umebinyuo rightly stated, “Nobody warned you that the women whose feet you cut from running would give birth to daughters with wings.”

CAMPAIGNS

There were so many campaigns during this period. It’s amazing to see that a lot of campaigns all over the world did their own bit to raise awareness and educate us all. I particularly noticed that the Department for International Development (DFID) and World Health Organization (WHO) tirelessly discussed some of the issues at length.

And yes, we at MTV Shuga dished out several informative articles, stories and videos on all our social media pages! Shugafans talked about the change they really want to see and you can check this out on our Twitter and Instagram pages, by following the hashtags,

Follow the Hashtags #16DaysOfActivism and #16Days2017 on twitter.

LESSONS

More and more people are joining this campaign to fight against gender based violence but there is still so much to be done. Gender based violence is a global issue and we all have faced some of these experiences at some point in our lives. Speaking up would go a long way in achieving a notable change.

Silence only benefits the perpetrator: “An untold story never heals, and an untold story does not help or protect anyone but the perpetrator.”

Social media has helped a great deal in educating people as a lot of users made remarks about having no knowledge on the 16 Days of Activism and its events before now. A movement has started on the internet and this is a great step in raising awareness.

We need men to stand up against gender based violence and join hands with women to support this cause.
16 Days of Activism may have come to an end but our work as individuals is not done until we become the change that we desire to see.


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Rhoda Ade

The fight will be easier if, Men tirelessly fight Men who are violent against women. It does look like a war that will soon be won!!.

Adebola Aduwo

Yes, it would be won if we refuse to relent.
Thank you, Rhoda.

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Moyosore Adelowo

From the statistics we observe, we know it's going to be a long battle but will be a gradual win. Starting from how we raise the next generation to how the current and previous generations change their warped perspectives on how Women should be treated. Your articles during this period have been really Enlightening. Thank you Adebola. Bless x

Adebola Aduwo

Thank you for reading, Moyo!

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Tolulope

One by one, we will take a stand against these issues that wreak havoc on our society and gradually results will/are showing and will continually build up till the right thing becomes the norm...

Adebola Aduwo

Yes! May we never get tired of doing the right thing.
Thank you, Tolu!

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Onyinye okpara

The 16 Days Of Activism increased awareness on the violence and injustice against women. It also brought to light the fact that the society has failed in educating men about certain etiquettes while focusing on training women to literally be perfect. I genuinely hope that the rave on this topic doesn't die down, that we continually write, speak and tweet about it. I hope the society realises that there is a certain moral decay among some/most of the male population and works on our generation. I also hope we get it right with the next male generation and that the amazons we are raising don't lose their strength, their voices and their hope.
God bless Nigeria.

Onyinye okpara

And God bless you Adebola, you never fail to impress.

Adebola Aduwo

Thank you so much, Onyinye!

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Tayo Owonikoko

This is a good way of enlightening the public about domestic violence and how to properly treat the girl child.but I feel we should look at the other way, as we are trying to educate and orientate the men we should not leave the women out.I read in the news recently about a chieftain in lekki who killed his wife unintentionally with his car.it was reported that they had an issue then the woman got angry and went to the man's block industry and destroyed all the blocks there while she was angry the man decided to leave the place in his car and ended up hitting her with his car.I don't know what kind of anger would have made her destroy his stuffs and she ended up dead and the man was arrested ...all I am saying is that women should be educated while educating the men to have a better society.. Just my opinion though and I don't support domestic violence and entitlement nice work adebola keep it up.

Adebola Aduwo

We all have a lot to do, men and women. Thank you for reading!

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Animashaun Hesjay Emmanuel

Yes, The #16DaysOfActivism2017 was indeed eventful. Medical students across the world were not left out. We lent out our voices under the auspices of various national member organisations. Of the International Federation of Medical Students Associations (IFMSA), and it was same even for licenced practitioners. With constant advocacy like these, we'll be sure of a GBV-free world sometime in future.
I should however like to add that, our advocacy and activities against GBV won't make so much impact until we take these messages to the grassroots. Lasting change grows from the bottom to the top. There's an urgent need to take the message beyond the new media; online activism can never be enough to fight GBV. While of course, our messages get to the microscopic few - the less than 20% of the world who have access to new media - billions of people remain unreached. Our generation must be 'actively' involved in the activism. The least we can do is organise local community projects where the very communal people can get to know about things like these.
I for example, would expect every Corp member of the NYSC in Nigeria who is interested in GBV and other related matters to make efforts at organising community projects in the various communities where they are posted to - especially those in rural areas. If many of these micro-cities get enlightened, the summation of all of them will then give us great numbers that are reached.
I got to understand the issue of rural communities and their attitudes towards these issues when last year, I embarked on a project to advocate against Female Genital Cutting. While we were in the urban centres, it was a smooth ride; everyone quickly understood the messages. But the story changed on getting to very rural communities. Trust me, that is where the real battle lies. People in those places don't know a thing about these issues, and its only what you have knowledge of, that you can sustain. I am sure the narrative can't be different for GBV.
Nice one, really! Well done for the good job.

Adebola Aduwo

Thank you so much for this! I'm making plans to incorporate this in my Community Development Service here in Abuja. Hopefully, we can reach out to more people and educate them on these issues.

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Gbemisola oluwadare

Well done Adebola.. This is not a one man's work, let us all keep spreading the awareness, take action in our various communities and stand up against gender based violence.

Adebola Aduwo

Thank you, Gbemisola!

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